Friday, December 15, 2017

你知道开裆裤到底蕴含着什么样的育儿智慧?

如今随着人们生活水平的提高,小孩穿的开裆裤逐步被纸尿裤所取代了,然而,你知道开裆裤到底蕴含着什么样的育儿智慧? 

关于开裆裤,网上抨击的文章一大把,几乎找不到一条对它的赞美,全是口诛笔伐,被批的体无完肤:不卫生,不安全,尿路感染,长蛲虫,外伤,被变态骚扰……开裆裤的存在完全是因为过去没有纸尿裤,是为了方便把屎把尿,是为了省去洗尿布的烦恼……时代在进步,开裆裤是个落后的东西……

真的如此吗?
既然有这么多坏处,为何中国人还穿了几千年开裆裤?

了解了中医思想,你才会知道对于一些流传了千年的做法,现代人的内心是需要一些敬畏的。

明代医圣万密斋的育儿秘旨里说道:“头要清凉背要温,露其下体养真阴。”这里说的是一岁或者说一岁半以内的小孩。

为什么要“露其下体养真阴"呢?


万密斋说了,“人生十六岁以前,气血俱盛,如日方升,如月将圆,惟阴常不足”,小儿体质有“阳常有余,阴常不足”的特点。阴常不足体现在哪里?阴虚火旺,五心烦热,都是阴常不足的体现。

那么在穿衣上有什么对策?很重要的,就是开裆裤。

万密斋就说了:“童子,裳不裘帛。”什么意思?裳,下体的衣服;帛,温软甚于布;裘,皮衣,温软甚于帛。也就是说,下体要穿得薄,你在下面不能用厚厚的棉絮裹,更不敢下面穿皮衣。冬天冷,很多家长给孩子穿秋裤毛裤牛仔裤,包得层层叠叠的,孩子跑都跑不动。这其实是在糟蹋孩子的身体。

万密斋又说:“ 下体主阴,得寒则阴易长,得温暖则阴暗消。”孩子在一周以内的变化是非常大的,从头能立,到能翻身、能坐、能爬、能走,发展非常快,这就是阳的作用。但在古人看来,阴阳是相对的,阳长得快,阴是不足的。如果下体包的太紧,阴就消掉了,这一消,会导致阳长得过快,将来会导致他阳的不足——别看现在长得快,以后可能就长不高啦。

所以不管是男孩女孩,想要生长发育得好,下面就一定不敢穿多。这就是光屁股的学问,真的并非图方便那么简单,而是对孩子一生影响深远的育儿智慧。

在影响孩子一生的成长发育大问题面前,开裆裤被抨击的那些问题已经不是大问题。不过就是一两年的时间,多费心些帮孩子做好卫生,多留心些保护他的安全,换来他生长发育的健康,这份辛苦是值得的。

这不是我们现代的医生说的,是两三百年前中医儿科大家告诉大家的。万密斋老先生活到97岁,他的家传儿科传到他是第三世了。我们中医上有一句话,“医不三世不为良医”——也就是医生啊,只有说三代都从医,到你这儿你才是个有成就的大家。万密斋就做到了这一点,所以在他身上,他很多的儿科观点,我相信是祖辈流传积淀下来的知识。

这件事也应该让我们反思,我们的骄傲让我们错失了多少优秀的传统文化?


传统习俗里到底都藏着什么智慧,这答案也许我们现在很多人不理解,然而就此否定它们,这对传统习俗来说,是不公平的。我想我们至少应该,为这些传统文化习俗,留一双探索的眼睛,留一只倾听的耳朵,去探寻一下它到底为什么存在,不要让这些背后的智慧,不明不白地消逝。

Tuesday, December 12, 2017

What a happy December !

How time flies, it is the last month of the year, soon we will be stepping into the year of 2018. It is time to look back and analyze if our goals achieved.

Many years ago I was working in Kuala Lumpur for more than 10 years. In 2014, I decided to go back to my home town, Kota Kinabalu, Sabah. It was a very difficult decision because I had left this small place when I was at a very young age. At Sabah, the operation of Homodesty Consultancy becomes very challenging, especially the slow paced working attitude and shortage of professional workers often giving troubles to my works.

This year, the biggest plan for my company is to move to a new office. Before that, it was located at Taman Seputeh, Jalan Damai. Now the new office is at Aeropod Commercial Square. This place is opposite to a train station, 3 mins drive from the international airport and within 5 mins drive, you can reach the capital city, Kota Kinabalu. For your info, Sabah is very famous for the sunset view, beautiful island for scuba diving, fresh seafood, jungle hiking at the rain forest and mountain climbing at the highest mountain in South East Asia - Mont. Kinabalu .

It took me more than 6 months to plan about the interior design and renovation work in the new office. Problem occured when we started the renovation works. At here, we have to due with careless, irresponsible and low abilities workers. There was an old saying in my home town : if you have renovation at your place, make sure you always be there and closely monitoring the workers. Anyway, the opening date of the new office had delayed because of a lot of uncontrollable situation.

During the few months of the renovation work in my office, my immune system has became weak. Because of high stress, too much worries and insomnia, a long disappeared Eczema attacked again! The skin was extremely itchy, red rashes appeared all over my neck and it felt like burning. Without thinking too much, I went to a doctor, he gave me Efficort Cream, suggested me to do some kind of allergic test and strongly recommended a kind of drug (with unknown side effect) to be taken for long term. I rejected the blood test and the dangerous medication, just bought the cream. In 5 days of using the cream, the rashes seem to reduced 50%. I didn't continue because I noticed the skin of my neck was gradually became thin, it was like a transparent paper. When the skin was thinning, it wasn't a good thing.


I was so stupid, why I didn't think of using the Chinese medicine method to treat myself? It must be my mind had been interrupted by the renovation stuffs until I forgotten I am a Chinese medicine doctor. So I immediately diagnosed myself, then used cupping to remove the heat and detox from the skin. As you can see from the photo, the skin at acupoint turned dark red, that indicated the waste metabolic sustances had been removed. After that I create a herbal supplement (no side effect at all) to treat the Eczema, the selected herbs work as effective as Anti-Histamine medication. Within 1 or 2 days, the rashes and itchiness gone. 

This Eczema experience taught me some lessons. It told me about the balance of the body, mind and soul are very important. The high level of stress, poor rest, worries, depress, angry etc can weaken the immunity. Same thing apply to those who suffering from skin pigmentation issue, when your health is poor, emotionally stressed, the dark spots / patches will spread or become darker.

In this December, I invented 3 new products to further enhance the treatment of skin pigmentation. By the introduction liquid cleanser, toner and herbal essence (some of you might used before), it will make our herbal skin care set become more powerful in combating dark spots. For any clients who purchase the External-SP or Homo-SP package, they can get those 3 products for FREE.





Have a nice day!

Wednesday, May 31, 2017

External_SP & Homo_SP full package for Freckle & Melasma











This video introduced the famous, hot selling, result orientated  skin pigmentation products from Ho Modesty Consultancy. The founder Alexander Ho who is also a licensed Chinese Medicine Doctor and Acupuncturist from Malaysia, he explained the idea and concept of the 100% Chinese herbs skin care products in treating dark spots.



The company policy
1. All the herbal products (included herbal supplement & herbal skin care products) are not recommended for pregnancy or breastfeeding women. 

2. Please consults your physician before taking any form of herbal products.

3. Our herbal products are traditionally used to improve skin condition, Individual result may vary. To achieve better result, managing a healthy lifestyle and good diet is important.

4. All products are 100% hand made. It is best to used within 3 months upon received. 

5. No refund, no returns or exchanges on goods sold. 


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