Showing posts with label Mind. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mind. Show all posts

Monday, December 14, 2020

小何中医杂谈第29集 :单身、已婚的未来及命运


单身及已婚,老了之后的生活都一样吗? 每个人都适合结婚吗? 你是否对一个人独自老去的生活感到相当不安? 结婚的意义是什么? 如果选择单身过一辈子, 在生活上会有很多不方便吗? 来自社会的压力会影响人生的决定吗?


Company address :

Homodesty Consultancy
Level 5, Aeropod Commercial Square,
Jalan Aeropod Off Jalan Kepayan,
88200 Kota Kinabalu, Sabah.

Google map : https://goo.gl/maps/XFT2CAZC2VS2

Contact number / WhatsApp / LINE : 012-4883814

E-mail : tcm.modesty@gmail.com

#中医 #中药 #中医皮肤科 #谦和堂 #孤独老去 #结婚 #单身 

Thursday, May 23, 2019

治不好的病与自我毁灭



自杀身亡的人认为生命中少了很重要的东西,从而得出一个重大的结论:不值得再活下去。除了生活不稳定,成就感太低也让这些人生感焦虑 - 实际的成就与向往的目标差距太远,让他们相信一切都没有了希望。我们发现灾难性思考容易导致各种因素的暴力死亡,这种无助感也很类似。   

人类的情绪是无形的,但是负面情绪与灾难性思考一旦结合是很要命的! 情绪与思想,这两者本是人类的动力。 其实我临床上有很多得了严重皮肤病的病人, 他治疗的差不多,就消失不来了。 因为他知道他的病好像很快就痊愈了, 他突然就有一种想法:我不配得到这个健康的身体。 

其实,人的弱点与堕性 - 会往毁灭移动的死亡意愿!这个谈的有点比较深奥吧?我们发现癌症病人有这种情况。 他觉得生无可恋, 死能解决所有的痛苦与问题。 所以这种灾难性思考是一种无形的病,负面情绪也是一种无形的毒, 是最难治的!他的病情会反复发作, 拖长又拖短, 甚至也不会和医生配合。

说得简单一点, 就是我们人生有很多挫折随着岁月累积下来, 很多负面的情绪没有办法抒发出来, 然后把情绪压抑下来。这些人觉得这个人生一点快乐都没有, 没有什么理由让他快点痊愈,让他继续活在这个世界上。 最后他会决定过着自我毁灭的生活方式,慢慢就会去自杀、就会去得忧郁症、癌症。

Company address :
Homodesty Consultancy
Level 5, Aeropod Commercial Square,
Jalan Aeropod Off Jalan Kepayan, 88200 Kota Kinabalu, Sabah.

Google map :
https://goo.gl/maps/XFT2CAZC2VS2

Contact number / WhatsApp / LINE : 012-4883814
Youtube channel : Alex Ho
Website : www.homodesty.com
E-mail : tcm.modesty@gmail.com  

#中医 #癌症 #忧郁症 #自杀 #情绪 #思想

Uncured disease and self-destruction



The person who committed suicide believes that something important is missing in life, and thus draws a major conclusion: it is not worth living anymore. In addition to the instability of life, the sense of accomplishment is too low  are making these people feel very anxious - the actual achievement is too far from the goal, let them believe that everything has no hope. We find that catastrophic thinking is prone to violent deaths of various factors, and this sense of helplessness is similar.

Human emotions are intangible, but the combination of negative emotions and catastrophic thinking is a disaster! Emotions and thoughts, are the motivations to move human being forward. In fact, I have some patients with severe skin diseases did not turn up even they are at the last stage of recovery. Why this happen? Because they knew that their illness seemed to heal soon, they suddenly had an idea of they don't deserve this healthy body.  

In fact, people's weaknesses and fall - will destroy the willingness to move! This statement is a bit more esoteric? We have found this in cancer patients. When they feels that there is no love, and death would be the only solution to end all the pains and problems. So this catastrophic thinking can consider as an invisible disease, and negative emotions are also an invisible poison, which is the most difficult to cure by any doctors! Their sicknesses will be repeated, prolonged and not easy to recover, because they don't want to cooperate with doctor.  

To put it simply, there are many setbacks in our lives through years of accumulation, many negative emotions have not been able to burst out, and then the suppression of emotions make these people feel that there is no happiness in this life. There is no reason for them to heal quickly and no hope to continue to live in this world. In the end, he will decide to live a self-destructive lifestyle, some of them will gradually suffer from depression, cancer and they will slowly commit suicide.  

Company address :
Homodesty Consultancy
Level 5, Aeropod Commercial Square,
Jalan Aeropod Off Jalan Kepayan, 88200 Kota Kinabalu, Sabah.

Google map :
https://goo.gl/maps/XFT2CAZC2VS2

Contact number / WhatsApp / LINE : 012-4883814
Youtube channel : Alex Ho
Website : www.homodesty.com
E-mail : tcm.modesty@gmail.com   

#Suicide #depression #Cancer #emotion # catastrophic #Chinesemedicine #Chinese herbs